"Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself."
— Daniell Koepke (via sydgc)br>THIS. THANK YOU. I hate how the general view is that if you break up with a friend you’re a bad uncaring person who doesn’t deserve a friend like that anyway, or that you apparently never cared about the friendship to begin with, etc. Sometimes friendships just don’t work anymore without it being anyone’s fault.
Maila Nurmi was goth before goth was goth. c. 1955-1956
- me: are there any spirits listening
- ouija: yes are you alone
- me: yes
- ouija: haha nice whats up :P
- me: trying to contact my dead grandmother
- ouija: cool cool so what would u be doing if i was alive right now lol
"If you think women are crazy you’ve never had a dude go from hitting on you to literally threatening to kill you in the time it takes you to say “no thanks.”"
Kendra Wells (via belle-de-nuit)
Well this is fucking surreal
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